Ask Yee - Anniversary Gifts from a Rapper - Stay for Family or Leave For Love (6-29-16)

now it's time for ask ye hello this yo
black Phillip Morris hey what's the
question for you
Phillip Morris what's good yeah yeah
yeah do I do my thing I rap I sing I you
know and I had I'm a songwriter also a
customer Oh
stand up DMV but my question is um like
I've been married since I was 20 right
and I'm 32 now and it's about to be on
my 13th year graduation thank you thank
you I love my wife very much but I would
like to know what I should do for you
know you've done so many things since
we've been 20 and I'm saying we've got
four kids
we'll always hustling grind she really
don't approve of this rap life you know
and she always think that it's something
she doesn't approve she doesn't want you
to be a rapper or you're out late at
night well yeah just mainly the rapper
because the females you know and saying
they just don't understand the etiquette
of a man that's married they know that
guys that's not really you what you know
but at the same time you don't say when
I go through my shows and I'm doing my
thing you know so you do do a lot of
shows yeah man I'm over it and so what's
going on when you're saying these women
don't understand the etiquette of a
married man well you know I'm saying
they all think that it's all the party
life they watching Love & Hip Hop they
think and every every every man is in
the game gonna want to be doing a thing
now what is it that you're doing that's
making your wife uncomfortable staying
out late nights in the studios you know
that's just a point of making this music
you know in the studio are there females
around oh no we don't do that it's all
business but she she assumes that it
would be like that you know
this you have axes if she wants to drop
by the studio I mean yeah always I mean
she won't bring them for kids check up
on you like that but you do you do fire
while you're there she knows what's
going on correct you face - do you know
when you work and you work and you
paying for this stuff you know he says I
got but I'm sure you take a little five
minutes to check in with your wife and
she's uncomfortable but now is getting
to the anniversary the palms are sweaty
you don't say justice to do that what
else it has something specific happen
with other women are they leaving
comments DMS is there something that
happened it can't just be you being at
the studio late oh no like I said you
don't say it's just a rap life in
general you don't say oh my god could we
please call his wife and tell her tell
her that this guy's not popping please
nobody knows you what rap like yo even
every favorite in one of my tracks so
why did he feed yourself don't you today
why do you even know why'd you scream
shout it like that oh remember
Morris free joy check it out I just want
to say black Phillip Morris
okay it's always difficult for a woman
have to deal with somebody when there's
gonna be women around and he's out late
at night I'll tell you what makes it
easier a couple of things are you making
money
black Phillip Morris he's making money
not with the phone cutting off like that
but you know when she sees you being
successful it is gonna be difficult but
you have to do things that make her feel
comfortable you have her shows already
if he has shows he should invite her to
come out check him out at the shows make
sure women aren't leaving crazy messages
on his Instagram but at the same time he
has to explain that in order for him to
be successful he has to appeal to women
as well as men all right well thank you
notify gee I don't even know what to say
cuz he got cut off but I know it has to
be something more than just him being in
the studio late well just do something
for your wife that you did the first
time you met it at first year you better
do exactly the same thing let it know
you remember
I can get a real job 805 I have no
random phone calls a random text
messages nothing to hide nothing to be
ashamed of and make sure she has access
to you whenever we're in the middle of a
sea hello this name of course a fibra
you know I can cut up in the Santa Fe
the media dream girl and burying your
dream girl but you know sometimes you
get in a situation so I had a kid not a
relationship with this lady and it's
working out it's okay
you don't do that they're in love them
and that's my thing you know do I do I
finish something that I started I
started this family or do I drop it and
go pursue a dream someday might not even
do this you know what perfect listen I I
understand when you have a child with
somebody ideally you want to be with
that person you want to have a family
and you want to have your child living
in the house with both of you and saying
this is my mom and dad now where you
guys in a relationship before she got
pregnant
was it a relational know-how didn't even
do relationships I haven't been in a
relationship since high school okay so
you just basically accidentally got her
pregnant she had the baby and now you
feel obligated to be with her you know
you know you can still be a good man and
not have to be with the women that you
had a child with it would be ideal it
would be nice but sometimes life doesn't
work that way but just being a good
father to your dad doesn't mean that you
are married in an unhappy relationship
okay it's not unhappy and they can work
it's all based on me but the omate
situation right and does that even exist
should I you know said I dropped what's
real for that fantasy or does that
fantasy even in this you know what I
mean it seems like you're not sure I'm
not sure how you feel about this woman
is this woman
you think wife material for you or is it
somebody that you're just saying I could
make it work if I had to we're both
growing and we can grow into that I do
think you can make good life
yet hmm because I'm just saying but this
is not who I've always pictured myself
with you know since I thought imagine it
myself but a lot of times our fantasy of
what we picture ourselves it later in
life doesn't come true sometimes we get
the exact opposite of what it is that
we're looking for right what's wrong
here that you don't feel like she's your
dream no she's very pretty but let me
let me get at this did you did the envy
and their Solomon the job they're your
dreams they were actually with their
women for how long MB 20 years
John I mean I know my wife since 1998 I
tried to get that vagina in 20 years so
that's a long time you're not ready to
settle down so I would say this if
you're not ready to settle down and
you're not ready to be all-in
then don't mislead her into thinking
that you are but it sounds like right
now
you don't seem like you're in this
relationship and it's not fair to her
for you to do that the risk is that you
could tell her I don't want to be in a
relationship with you but let's raise
our child together and see what happens
and she could find somebody else that's
perfect for her so if you're willing to
take that risk and let her go and
potentially never get her back the way
you might possibly want to later then
that's the risk you have to take but I
don't think that it would be fair for
her if you think she's a great person
you respect her you love her in any way
for you to be in a relationship that
you're not fooling into so don't want to
keep and she's fat right now be honest
Bruce a pronoun is not ready to settle
down
yeah anyway I know y'all got things to
do I appreciate the input charlemagne
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